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Another letter to a friend

Dear wife, Honesty and communication are integral in our relationship too. We thrive on being brave enough to have the hard conversations when needed and enjoy the way honesty sparkles in everyday conversation as well. For me, opening up to … Continue reading

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A letter to the wife of a fellow kinkster

Its nice to hear we’re not alone in this journey. Reconciling everyday life can be challenging enough. Discovering your spouses love language is submissive kink when you’ve never thought on those terms must be like discovering you’ve been living next … Continue reading

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Giving up control

With Cheyenne, part of the agreement is I don’t question her, coach, or offer advice about D/s and my locked state while locked in the device. If I’m not locked it’s okay to talk about things more openly. So here … Continue reading

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Where to start?

I set up this blog over a week ago after a blogger friend of mine Drew suggested it as a means to express and record my experiences. Well, here I am writing what’s essentially my first post. The first one … Continue reading

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Why I’m writing

I’m a 40 something year old half-Asian half Caucasian married man. Over the last several years I’ve experienced more personal growth than at any other time in my life that I can remember. I’m talking big stuff: Divorce, children, remarrying, … Continue reading

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